aValbane’s BloGGie

Do u ever think about if one day you are going to be some one else’s parents? I know it might sound weird to you but there was once when i went for a trip, one of my friend which is a girl brings along another girl friend. That girl lied to her dad that she will stay in a hotel with all of us. But actually she brought her boyfriend along and my another friend brought her boyfriend too. They both share the same room of course. Her dad seem like a nice guy, old but really a good father. Then i wonder, if one day my own daughter lied to me on this kinda thing, it’s totally sad!Its the same feeling like u gonna be cheated by a man. @@ So i thought its really a bad feeling as u cheat or being cheated its the same. Then suddenly i felt like i know how it feels to be a parents someday when your child might do that to you the same way. It really hurts, but what more can we do, right? Sometimes we just can’t control this kinda situation but as we can teach them from young not to lie. When they grows up i think they will know what they can lie and what they can’t lie. Usually what u can’t lie is called a white lies. It still depends how u face those lies and also how u handle your lies. If a very serious lie, i would suggest you not to lie unless there’s a better reason. Its good to teach them from young so when they have grown mature, i think they will know how to handle their thoughts of lying. Somehow i feel that lied to someone is really a big burden in yourself and u can’t bring it til death rite? Someday u will go to the church and made your confessions. That’s when we learn how to forgive others mistakes. We’re only human, we’re born with mistakes that are not done by us but as we are born that way, it’s our responsibility to fix them. Not to take it for granted. It’s just something i wanted to share. Not to teach nor to tell anyone outside there about sins or some stupid crap. But its just a sharing of thoughts cos we are born with different names, minds, status, race, and religions. I respects all of your thoughts and i don’t mind to share them with you nor for you to tell me yours. Right or wrong its still depends on what you have learned. When we gain those knowledge, we learn to tolerate other’s thoughts and we judge them on our own to which way we think suits us and its right to follow. When we made mistakes, that’s how we learn from wrong to right and from right to wrong, its the most precious thing on earth—>EXPERIENCE!MOney cannot buy LOVE nor these. Its how u been built and appreciate your life. I appreciate every single thing in my life even the slightest thing that comes to me even the badest thing cos without those bad things, good things will never come.